Browsing the internet for sex toys online with your partner is sexy in itself. Even waiting for your new toys to arrive has its perks. The anticipation, wondering what it will be like, how it will feel, not knowing how it will feel, how you can use it with your partner, this can be very exciting!
Relationships usually begin with a lot of exhilaration, then as you and your partner get to know each other the regular, sex begins to become less of a regular thing.
But do you really know each other, or do you just think you do? Ultimately there is no definition of yourself, and no definition of your partner. Talking about sexuality and exploration in your relationship can be something new.